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To The Good PDF Print E-mail
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Written by Michael A. Strieb   
Thursday, 22 July 2010 11:09

Michael with Randi at TAM 7We are here to add to the sum of human goodness. To prove the thing exists. And  however finite each individual act of courage or generosity, self-sacrifice or grace – it still proves the thing exists. Each act adds to the fund. It needs replenishment. – Josephine Hart

I have occasionally seen people lament (or brag, depending which side of the aisle they're on) that one of the advantages a faith-based organization has over other types is its ability to raise funds for charities with relative ease. There is no doubt that these groups, from the local soup kitchen to the Salvation Army, do a tremendous amount of good. But that doesn't mean you can count out an outfit like the good ol' JREF.  So gather around children, because I have a story to tell.

As I've mentioned here before, I have ALS, or amyotrophic lateral sclerosis. It is better known as Lou Gehrig's disease, a neuromuscular disorder that quickly robs its victim of most voluntary movement while leaving the mental processes intact. Essentially the patient becomes trapped in his own body. Aside from the baseball figure for whom it is named, probably the most famous person to be diagnosed with ALS is Stephen Hawking. Most of the time the limbs are the first to go. Between 10-20% of cases, however, are "prebulbar", meaning the symptoms start in the mouth or throat region. Such was my situation. About 2 1/2 years ago I noticed I'd occasionally slur a word or two here and there. As time went on the effect became more frequent and more pronounced. Soon it was quite noticeable in everything I said. Eventually only those who knew me well could comprehend me, but not for long. At the present time, there are about half a dozen words I can say that only my wife understands.

As my speech deteriorated, my reliance on other forms of communication grew. I started simply by carrying a notepad and pencil. I considered learning sign language but the tremor in my fingers suggested I wouldn't have the use of them long enough to make it worthwhile. I went through a variety of text-to-speech devices, tried TTY, and spent a lot of time chatting online with friends. Last November, I lost the ability to use a mouse and keyboard. For the next six months I went without a computer, and my sole means of communication was tapping out texts on a touch screen cell phone using a chopstick as a stylus.

Lest you think this is a sob story, let me assure you it is not. It is one of hope and goodwill, of kindness and friendship. The time was coming soon when I would no longer have enough movement in my hands to even use my cell phone, but there was an option. I learned through our local chapter of the ALS Association (a wonderful organization; check it out at www.alsphiladelphia.org) of an eye gaze system where cameras track the movement of your eyes and direct the cursor accordingly on an on-screen keyboard. The only problem was that even with insurance, the cost was prohibitive. It would take close to a year to save it up.

Enter the skeptic community. Through the generosity of scholarships and individuals (a story in itself) I was able to attend TAM7 last year, my first one. I shared a room with a very kind man and we exchanged numbers so we could find each other over the course of the weekend. Nine months later he discovered he still had it, dropped me a line,  and we corresponded a bit. I mentioned my situation and something I said must have resonated because what happened next was, in my eyes, nothing short of astounding. Unbeknownst to me, he took it upon himself to go on the JREF forum and start a fundraiser, building a website and hosting it on a server out of his own home. As he put it, he threw a snowball at the mountain and the mountain responded with an avalanche. At least two discussion threads were started. Skepchick.org picked up on it and I'm told it got a mention in Bad Science. Soon the site had a few hundred hits, then a couple thousand. And in just four days, the cost of the system had been covered. Two weeks later it arrived, and for the first time in nearly a year I could use a voice to speak to my wife, my children, and my friends.

It was all due to a bunch of people some of whom I've met exactly once, many who I've just exchanged comments with online, and a few who don't know me at all. It was people from JREF, but also some from sites I haven't visited very often. There were people from all over the country who donated, and I suspect a few from beyond our borders as well. So what's the common thread that links these folks together? They are good. They are kind. They are altruistic. And they are members of the skeptic community.

This was not an isolated incident. When Robert Lancaster, creator of such sites as StopKaz and StopSylvia, found himself dependent on a wheelchair, the members of the JREF made sure he would not be homebound by rallying together and getting him a handicap-accessible van. The JREF as an organization provides scholarships and educational opportunities, and last year the generosity of its members provided the funds for vaccinations to over 300 children from underprivileged families in just one weekend. In fact, judging from the speed at which these things come together once people set their mind to it, I'd venture to say that the charitable projects I've witnessed undertaken by the skeptical community are more efficient and effective than any church-sponsored bake sale or 5K run I've seen.

I know what loving and giving people JREF members are. If you didn't before, you do now. So I suppose the only thing left to do is let everyone else know. Take another look at the first sentence I wrote in this article. What those people are observing is not a truism; it is merely a perception, and not one we have to live by. A grassroots movement on the local level can have a tremendous impact. Have your own skeptic's organization set up a scholarship for the home town high school senior who demonstrates exceptional critical thinking skills.  Pick a neighborhood family who is down on their luck to be the beneficiary of a 3rd grade read-a-thon. Offer to read aloud during story time at your library or bookstore (and if they don't have a story time, they should, so start one! ). Skeptics as a rule are very intelligent and imaginative. If those qualities were applied to charitable means on a large scale on a regular basis, the possibilities would be endless.

No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted. – Aesop, The Lion and the Mouse

 

Michael is known as "NobbyNobs" on the JREF Forum.

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written by JeffWagg, July 22, 2010
Why does this make me think of stars?
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written by bookitty, July 22, 2010
@popsaw. Altruism isn't a contest.

Micheal, your story makes me glad to be living in the future. You can talk to your family with your eyes. It's just so cool. The response would have been the same if you had needed something more mundane, as with Mr. Lancaster, but it was a bonus. In addition to helping one of our own, we were a part of putting this excellent technology to work.
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written by popsaw, July 22, 2010
Perhaps if you read paragraph 2 of the article and also the full article here http://tinyurl.com/3549oqb containing the phrase "Secular people and skeptics are often accused of not being charitable, and this campaign is fine way to demonstrate that nothing could be further from the truth." you will see that these pages have 'perceived'competition in the altruism dept!
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written by popsaw, July 22, 2010
Forgot to add this link which speaks for itself smilies/cry.gif for itself http://givingaid.richarddawkins.net/
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written by NobbyNobbs, July 22, 2010
There's a disconnect in your logic that I don't quite understand. Your complaint is the skeptical community only looks after its own. Both of the articles you referred to are about sending relief to Haiti. Are you under the impression that the majority of Haitians are skeptics?
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written by Willy K, July 22, 2010
I'd venture to say that the charitable projects I've witnessed undertaken by the skeptical community are more efficient and effective than any church-sponsored bake sale or 5K run I've seen.

Maybe they're more efficient because they don't have to ask some supernatural being which of the "faithful" is the most deserving. smilies/wink.gif

Also it cost lots of loot to proselytize. smilies/tongue.gif
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written by The Central Scrutinizer, July 22, 2010
Nice article. Michael!

I don't remember if I donated or not. If I didn't, I'll be sure to do so the next time a fellow Skeptic is in need!
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written by JeffWagg, July 22, 2010
A couple of points, Popsaw. First, there is finally an "us" to talk about. Imagine that! But unlike a church or other faith-based group, we're not part of an organized community (though we may be heading towards that) and we have no divine revelation telling us what to do. The good that was done here was done because people are good, and that's to be celebrated.

Second, it's worthwhile pointing out that our loosely-knit community does have values and compassion. There was nothing divisive about Michael's article, and I frankly wish you hadn't piled onto it with your concerns about Dawkins' motivations. That's a separate issue.

Our community, and one person in particular, helped someone in need — someone not many of us know well, and someone who didn't ask for anything. That's a wonderful thing, and it's something that's happened many times.

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written by GODOFPIE, July 22, 2010
For lack of a better term, skeptical activism is spreading, and we are coming to a town near you. When it is the belief of the majority that morals are handed down from on high it is important to point out that assumption is wrong.
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written by Zoroaster, July 22, 2010
I say let it be an open, no-holds-barred competition. Let every meme and creed into this free-for-all potlatch of generosity and judge them all by their works! Whoever does the most to improve overall quality of life on the planet by 2500 AD gets a gold star by their name and can decree and enforce Federal and State holidays for the next 500 years.
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God bless skeptics
written by RSLSBH, July 22, 2010
Ok, so some of you will be angry at the title of my post, but that's Ok. I love you anyway.

Michael, you couldn't be more right about how this "community" comes together when one of their own is in need. I totally agree that skeptic organizations should become more visable philanthropic organizations if the movement is to grow.

I have to tell you, I am a Christian and I'm married to an agnostic: Robert Lancaster. The moment I went on the JREF Forum and notified my husband's friends of his stroke (thinking I didn't want his email and pm boxes to become flooded with questions of where he was, and he being unable to answer), my thread was flooded with "what can I dos" and "is there anything you needs." A fund raiser was started, and donations poured in from all over the world "to cover the costs of medical expenses." In a matter of months the fund held a great deal of money. All of our medical expenses were being covered by insurance, so I thought long and hard about how the money could be used. I knew by then that he would be in a wheelchair for some time, and he would be needing to go to outpatient therapy appointments and doctor appointments. How would he get there in my little Dodge Neon? So, I used the money to buy a wheelchair-friendly van. Not a day goes by that I don't think of the folks who provided us with the means to make this important purchase which we would not have been able to do on our own.

Later, as the short-term disability ran out and it was taking ever so long for Social Security Disability to kick in, and I was trying to pay all our bills on my salary (about half what Robert's was), more donations were made to help. Gifts were sent to try and make Robert's hospitalization a little easier - a huge digital picture frame, music, books, blown-up group photos of forumites, and more. When I knew Robert was coming home, it was a JREF forumite who loaned us the money for a wheelchair ramp system.

I went to church each week, and I would report to my church family about the wonderful people affiliated with the James Randi Education Foundation. I told them how folks from all over the world, most he'd never met, were coming to the aid of a man they respected and truly cared about. Not that they would, but my church family could not compete with the help my husband and I were receiving from this skeptic organization filled with non-believers . . . and a few believers like me. They did what they could do, which was donate some funds whenever possible, and they gave me and Robert's kids and my son a huge plastic bin filled with holiday food for Christmas. My church family consisted of a couple hundred members. JREF is considerably larger. I am extremely grateful for what they did, and the support my church family gave me. JREF members also gave me support - loads of it! I always found a listening ear on the forum and in the JREF chat room. That meant every bit as much, if not a little more, than any money or gift sent.

I am so glad we have been able to help our "NobbyNobbs." And Michael, I extend to you the offer that has been extended to me again and again: If there is anything I can do, anything you want or need, please count on me to help. I know my husband feels the same.
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written by Chicken Pot Pie, July 23, 2010
I was fortunate to meet Nobby at TAM7 in 2009. He could slowly text, but could not speak, yet he was an amazing person to meet in real life. Do you not see what our contributions have made, not only to him, but his family? This technology will enable him to communicate with his wife and children! A little contribution from many has given Nobby back to his family! That's just the begining, because Nobby has so much to teach us! The technology will keep a wonderful human in communication with everyone. I don't see why that could be constued as anything but marvelous.
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written by popsaw, July 23, 2010
Please understand that I have not criticized the skeptic community(of which I am one) and I certainly understand why the writer is grateful. I believe that when people act in such humane ways, it is out of inherent human kindness and not because of membership of some social, religious or political group.
I am sure for instance that a random group, picked from any other organization or even belonging to no organization, would have acted in the same kind manner. These acts therefore in my opinion the product of human kindness.
When people such as Richard Dawkins use antagonistic, divisive slogans such as "Non believers giving aid" and say, "When donating via Non-Believers Giving Aid, you are helping to counter the scandalous myth that only the religious care about their fellow-humans."(A myth of his own invention), he is being divisive and I using charity to score points. In retrospect, I can see how I may have been perceived to have been criticizing the article but the truth is that I went off track from the original article. My first post should have been to praise the fine deeds of those that were kind to Nobby and to wish him well, as I do now.
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written by Arthwollipot, July 25, 2010
There are real angels.
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